For Mom - mom needs a few comfy outfits, but don't overdo it, most people said they spent most of the time in the hospital gown.
2. sweat pants
3. nursing top
5. nursing bras
6. lanolin - for sore nipples
7. bottom spray - recommended to me to cool "down there"
8. cotton underwear - I've heard they give these to you, so you probably don't need to go overboard here either.
For Dad - the basics will do.
9. tee shirts
10. comfy pants
12. Baby journal - I know I'll be exhausted and overwhelmed, but I'd like to capture those thoughts and memories right away, so I can remember what it really felt like in the moment.
13. camera - of course
14. iPad - for the down time
For (my possible Valentine's Day) Baby - going home outfit. They specifically told us this is all he will need. I also threw in a swaddle blanket, so I can get a lesson from the nurse using the kind we have here.
17. knit onsie
Don't forget the other essentials, a toothbrush, your chargers, deodorant, glasses, etc. Some people bring music for the labor, I may pack something, but I have a hunch that won't be at the forefront of my mind when I arrive at the hospital.
Wish me luck and I'll come back with the updated list after I've been through it and really know the necessities.